Be his fantasy…

Recently, I overheard a conversation where a man told a girl that one of his friend was “dreaming about her”, the girl seemed pleasantly surprised but said “that is not appropriate”. Another man who was present said: “On the contrary, that is a good thing. you are his fantasy. You should be proud about it because you are saving this guy marriage. If he cannot go through with his wife, he’ll think about you.” It seemed something very funny because everyone laughed.

I did give it some thought and said to myself, this is not normal. But who am I to define normal? With all sexual tendencies in the world, all kinds of depravity, what is normal? Well let’s just imagine we are in a “normal” world.

So, here we have a girl who has sensual power over a man, a man who is fantasizing about another woman and…the poor wife. Yes, the poor wife, the third wheel of the carriage. Poor wife, because while her man may not be adulterous, he is dreaming about another woman, which is practically…the same thing.

So at this point, people will start telling me that it’s ok for men to fantasize about other woman, that women does it too, for example when they see Ryan Gosling’ sexy abs.

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Why it is so difficult for men (especially) to stay attracted to their wife?  Marriage should not be based on physical attraction SOLELY but I believe it’s a MUST to be aroused by your husband or wife. Because if each time you are making love, he or she has to think about someone else to heat things up, we have a problem here.

Men fails to see their wife as their mistress, because a mistress is like the forbidden fruit, it’s tempting, delicious and exciting. So Wife, why not try to be your husband mistress?

Your husband should be impatient to return home to literally crawl in your arms, not thinking about this hot girl in the office  he would like to….

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Why be ashamed of going wild with him because last time we checked, you are married meaning you have the legal right to do whatever you feel like doing. If a mistress is willing to make him feel good in-any-possible-ways she can think of, why not you?

Why not surprise him with that sexy negligee so his jaw will drop? Why not take this warm bubble bath with him after a hectic day of work? Why not share your fantasies with each other? Men should encourage their wife to be intimate with them, to share their true feeling. Why your wife should be the boring daily meal and your mistress the exotic cocktail or delicious dessert?

Women, claim your right to be your husband mistress. Show that man you can surprise him beyond his expectations. Be your husband fantasy!

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10 DIY Organization ideas

While browsing the internet, I found some simple and easy DIY organization ideas :

1- A carabiner to hold hair bands:

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2- A cloth hanger to hold scarves:

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3-  A magnetic paper clip holder to store bobby pins:

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4- Ice cube tray to store jewelry:

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5- Shower curtain rings to hold jewelry:

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 6- Shower curtain rings to hang purses:

7- Jars to hold office supplies:

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 8- Clothepins to arrange embroidery floss:

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9- Tea cups and bowls to store jewelry:

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10- Shoe bag for miscellaneous items:

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The joy of decluttering

I was thinking about the progress I have made in self development and I am quite happy how it is going along well.  I have learned that I do not have to tolerate things that are bothering me and the best thing to do is to get rid of them and this applies to all aspects of life.

For instance, my wardrobe was full of clothes, hanging in a disorderly fashion and each time I got out from work and saw it , I knew I had to do something about it but I did not. Then, last weekend I finally decided to end its suffering, so I took all the clothes, and sort them, what I intend to keep and what I should get rid of or give away. After that, all the clothes that I kept I hung them in the wardrobe and I would swear I heard it say: Oh, My God, thank you, I am finally breathing! loool.

I also did some decluttering at work also, get rid of papers, stuff I did not need anymore, and I am more enthusiast to work now.

This is also apply in your social life, you do not have to be friends with everyone, specially the people that are always trying to bring you down, the hypocrits, the free riders and even some  family members, yes, if you see that they are having a bad influence, stay away from them.  Life is much better without them, trust me, the only person that is essential is JESUS.

The idea is to keep it simple in every aspect of your life, you do not need the whole wide world to be happy.

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Colors and Street Art!

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While browsing the internet, I stumble upon this site mademoisellemaurice.com, Mademoiselle Maurice is a French artist which occupations vary from photography, or painting and embroidery.

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One of her work caught my attention, it is called “Spectre” , which is origami street art.  They have a particular meaning for her. As a color lover, I like the artwork and what it inspires.  Here is a video taken while she is doing her work:  http://vimeo.com/42825583

Enjoy!  🙂